If you are lonely, I think you can do two things: you are looking for a job where you are no longer lonely, or you learn to be alone and enjoy the free time.Both are not always easy when you feel lonely and that would be something negative. For many people, the first variant is not easy. It is not easy to overcome yourself and take action. The possibilities also differ depending on the age. I thought about a few things. There are certainly more things and something different for everyone.
- Volunteering, e.g. there are neighbourhood aids for young and old, seniors’ meetings, walks that you can lead, work with children, work with animals, e.g. with the help of pigeons, with free radio, with refugees, you can even get an education for the Do telephone pastoral care, shelter or in hospital.
The easiest way to find out is in the city, and we even have an office for this. You can also start new clubs at any time or clean up actions such as with your neighbours.
In Bochum, depending on your interest, there are various groups that also regularly offer regular tables such as “Bochum neu Freizeitreff” or a national “Vegan Group”. Sure, you don’t go once and then automatically are nisren, usually you have to go several times. You can also arrange a meeting in forums on the Internet or on various apps if it is easier for someone than in real ones.
Difficult when you move to a new city. But don’t give up hope directly, often it just takes time to develop a friendship.
It also does a good time to spend time with people, even if it can sometimes be stressful. The day is quickly over and you also earn a bit of money. It’s kind of like volunteering, just paid.
Yes animals really help against loneliness. They give so much love and you can also give you a lot of it. You can “talk” to him and cuddle and go for a walk! With a dog on the way you automatically get to know other dog owners.
So and then there are things you can do on your own if you don’t know what to do over time:
3.Learning a language
4.take a course at the University / VHS
6.cook something delicious
7.clean and sort out properly
8.start a new hobby like making music or making movies, photographing, crafting, works
9.Hiking, doing sports, walking
10.Wellness day and even pre-manufacture its own cosmetic products
12.Bake a small cake just for yourself
13.sometimes not on social media for some time
14.positive affirmations such as “I’m happy when I’m alone” or “I’m creative when I’m alone,” “I’m enough”
15.go to the cinema, go to dinner
16.Planning a holiday
17.Just get on a bus and see where it’s going
18.Call an old friend
19.Check out Pinterest and collect ideas
20.answer here on Quoara questions
21.to do a jigsaw
22.go to the library
23.googling what else you can do when you’re bored.