How important is honesty in love?

In my opinion, it is important to be misworded, because dishonesty and love are mutually mutually important.
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Certainly, in every relationship, an individual appearance of love emerges or.not every relationship that has grown through love is like the other. For me, however, honesty is a fundamental element of love, although love can be expressed individually and very differently.
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In any case, where there is dishonesty there can be no love, because where there is love is honesty.Quite automatic, in all aspects and in the comfortable as well as – above all – in the uncomfortable.
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If I have done something wrong, then I will tell you and you will listen to me without this mean that you consider my offence acceptable and maybe you would not tolerate it.You may disagree, you can judge things differently, but you realize that I honestly told you my view because I know you will listen to me and I don’t want to lie to you exclusively or.
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If you have done something wrong, then the convenience of the indect menting of your offense will mean less than not being honest with me and you will tell me about it, because you know that I too will tell you will listen.
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Whatever the way things are for you or me, how much a comfortable situation could become more uncomfortable… it will be better for us than to remain in convenience and to know that we have not entrusted oneanother or lied to oneanother.I’m not flawless and neither are you, but we both are able to speak.
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If I don’t want to stay with you, I want you to know because I tell you honestly and not because I let you feel it or cover it up.I can tell you because I know that we do not own each other, but have voluntarily agreed that we want to spend part of our lives together. We did not promise it to any God or office, and anyway it was not a promise, but our free choice. If that decision changes or I question it – for whatever reason – I will tell you. You will understand it as it is meant and will not harass, threaten, influence and manipulate me to sustain our love.
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If you don’t want to stay with me, you’ll tell me honestly, even if it’s uncomfortable, because maybe I might be sad about it.You know I’d let you go because I don’t want you to be somewhere you don’t want to be. Your well-being would be more important to me than you doing something that would only be for my good. I wouldn’t shout at you, i wouldn’t emotionally blackmail you or kneel in front of you to sustain our love.
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To love means to speak out all truths and needs clearly, in order to be able to love the weaknesses and deficits of the other.But for that you have to know them, because only then can it be judged and decided whether one (continues to) fit together or not. I speak honestly to you, show you my weaknesses and not just my good sides. I show myself completely and i also want it from you. We don’t hide anything from each other so that we can decide every day again whether or not we want to continue to spend our lives together on a free choice.
To do this, I need to know who you are and you too should know who you are dealing with when I am by your side.
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Honesty / honest communication are part of the foundation of love. I would even say that real love relationships begin with honest communication.It will be a matter of time before conflicts and disappointments show up.
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Those who cannot speak the truth are not free for some reason, fear consequences or simply prefer convenience.
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In relationships of purpose and dependency,there is no honest communication, because there is demanded, expected, used, desired, begging, dragged, rescued, abused, deceived, blackmailed, lied, haggled, feared, kept silent, exercised control and manipulated to get love.Or to maintain them or to that which is thought to be love.
There are fears, claims to possessions, needs, jealousy, ego, neediness, obligations, struggles, constraints and above all discouragement for honestcommunication.As long as these things exist, relationships are not love relationships. Anyway not (more) according to my understanding.
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Whoever loves is at the same time courageous and confronts all problems, inconveniences, disagreements and fears, because he leaves the space it needs to love.It does not shake the foundation on which love is built: freedom, loyalty, integrity, trust, authenticity, honesty or crystal clear + ego-free communication.This foundation exists automatically when two whole, complete people meet, who show their completeness (strengths and weaknesses) authentically and do not pretend to be someone else to influence the other’s decisions.
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Love is a bond between two people who can stay with themselves and still give something away if they want to.Those who feel connected to each other in freedom and communicate honestly with eachother.
You can support the thriving of a real love relationship by not shaking the foundation of love and fundamentally encountering your partner on the above basis.So long you do not do this and e.g.not being able to communicate 100%honestly, you will not live any real love and will not experience it.At best, a relationship or a marriage.

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