That explains to what extent you are ‘ connected ‘ to him and to how strong he is narcissisit. If you are a partner and need a divorce with or without children, then be prepared for it.Legal, emotional and also especially practical. Make sure you make as much independent as possible before cutting the knot. Alternative place of residence, financial security, support of a trustworthy person. Do all this very carefully and don’t let anything notice the things that come. If there are cases like cheating/bedreigen/domestic violence etc, please document as much as possible.
If you leave a narissist, they conceive this as something you do not ‘ can ‘ do, after all, you are there to provide them with what they need.It could be that they are doing everything to thwart your plans, or to get back afterwards. Do not underestimate either, they have no empathy or moral compass, so all methods that work are allowed to violence.
After you have left him, disconnect ANY contact.It is quite normal for him to turn 180 degrees into behavior and just be sun-versierder/Good Prater/Belover as when he first lued you into his power. And you are, as codependent, too gullible and also dependent and ADDICTED to the relationship.
DTA Last is important for Jezlef: Learn what your role is in the relationship story. You are addicted to EACH OTHER, literally with all hormonal processes as a drug addict.Learn from yourself how you are together and why you (without changing) can get back into an equal relationship.
Never forget the following;
THE BIGGEST FEARS THEY HAVE, THEY BRING IT ON THEMSELVES 芒 鈧?”-they FEAR YOU WILL CHEAT, so they DO IT FIRST 芒 鈧?-THEY LACK TRUST, SO THEY LIE TO YOU 芒 鈧?”芒 鈧? THEY FEAR FOR REJECTION, SO THEY REJECT YOU FIRST 芒 鈧?”芒 鈧? THEIR FEAR OF US IS ALL FABRICATED IN THEIR OWN MINDS 芒 鈧?” DUE TO CHILD ABUSE/INSANITY$ DISORDER/OR JUST DELUSION
Do you want to be in a love affair with someone who sees you as the enemy?Which is not reliable or constant in any way? With which you have been in nowhere for years and years, no matter that you have tried everything, and all the excuses that had been raised have helped to befall well, to get another excuse again, until you do not remember what you actually had in 1st instance Asked? Do you want to be in a relationship with someone who rejects you and reproaches you without any forgiveness for the smallest things, while you have treated them infinitely forgiving? Do you want to be with someone who is no one, and look at you what you would like to hear or see if you ask for their opinion or truth? Do you want to be with someone who gives you a nervous breakdown because they run your complete mixed-signals, say a but in terms of tone, content or action B.? And no matter how strict you will ask for clarification of what it is, they have all sorts of ways to frustrate the mess, attack you hard or play a very emotional victim all of a sudden, all to discredit you. They keep lying, because they can’t be honest.
You already cut off t contact. Say decisively: I don’t want to see you anymore.Or: I don’t talk to you anymore. Why? Say: You’re ‘ n narcissist (or sociopath or disturbed or whatever, business as usual for the person).
This way you keep t simple.Keep Breathing quietly. Good luck!
According to this video, the bpd芒 鈧劉 there is the natural enemy of a narcissist.
So maybe be so extremely aggressive that they are afraid of you?